The real question

Is it better to have loved and lost or not to have loved at all?

In my opinion based on my personal experiences.....There is no pain more excruciating than the pain of a broken heart... especially the heart which has been broken by betrayal. After my personal experiences, I sometimes wonder why I have not become immune to this pain. Why does it hurt still? Why do I still cry? Why haven't I given up on "love" and the quest for it? For the lack of a "delete history" or "reload" option; I would say I would have been much more happier if I had never fallen in love. Unlike the bundle of insecurity, cynicism bordering on indifference, bitterness and suspiciousness ; which I am now. It would have been an alternative fate with alternative people in it and alternative events of happiness and sadness. I would have saved many nights spent in crying in misery and almost going insane. There is nothing in this world that causes so much pain and if I could choose between love and death, I think I would rather die. As the poet of the famous love poem "Frozen Tear" puts it.